All kids have worries and doubts. But kids with obsessive-compulsive
disorder (OCD) often can't stop worrying, no matter how much they want
to. And those worries frequently compel them to behave in certain ways
over and over again.
About OCD
OCD is a type of anxiety disorder. Kids with OCD become preoccupied
with whether something could be harmful, dangerous, wrong, or dirty — or
with thoughts that bad stuff could happen.
With OCD, upsetting or scary thoughts or images, called obsessions,
pop into a person's mind and are hard to shake. Kids with OCD also might
worry about things not being "in order" or "just right." They may worry
about losing things, sometimes feeling the need to collect these items,
even though they may seem useless to other people.
Someone with OCD feels strong urges to do certain things repeatedly —
called rituals or compulsions — in order to banish the scary thoughts,
ward off something dreaded, or make extra sure that things are safe,
clean, or right in some way.
Children may have a difficult time explaining a reason for their
rituals and say they do them "just because." But in general, by doing a
ritual, someone with OCD is trying to relieve anxiety. They may want to
feel absolutely certain that something bad won't happen or to feel "just
right."
Think of OCD as an "overactive alarm system." The rise in anxiety or worry is so strong that a child feels like he or she must perform the task or dwell on the thought, over and over again, to the point where it interferes with everyday life.
Most kids with OCD realize that they really don't have to repeat the
behaviors over and over again, but the anxiety can be so great that they
feel that repetition is "required" to neutralize the uncomfortable
feeling. And often the behavior does decrease the anxiety — but only
temporarily. In the long run, the rituals may worsen OCD severity and
prompt the obsessions to return.
Causes
Doctors and scientists don't know exactly what causes OCD, although
recent research has led to a better understanding of it and its
potential causes. Experts believe OCD is related to levels of a
neurotransmitter called serotonin. Neurotransmitters are chemicals that
carry signals in the brain.
When the flow of serotonin is blocked, the brain's "alarm system"
overreacts and misinterprets information. These "false alarms"
mistakenly trigger danger messages. Instead of the brain filtering out
these messages, the mind dwells on them — and the person experiences
unrealistic fear and doubt.
Evidence is strong that OCD tends to run in families. Many people
with OCD have one or more family members who also have it or other
anxiety disorders influenced by the brain's serotonin levels. Because of
this, scientists have come to believe that the tendency (or
predisposition) for someone to develop a serotonin imbalance that causes
OCD can be inherited.
Having the genetic tendency for OCD doesn't mean that someone will
develop OCD, but it does mean there's a stronger chance that he or she
might. Sometimes an illness or some other stress-causing event may
trigger the symptoms of OCD in a person who is genetically prone to
develop it.
It's important to understand that the obsessive-compulsive behavior
is not something that a child can stop by trying harder. OCD is a
disorder, just like any physical disorder such as diabetes or asthma,
and is not something kids can control or have caused themselves.
OCD is also not something that parents have caused, although life
events (such as starting school or the death of a loved one) might
worsen or trigger the onset of OCD in kids who are prone to develop it.
Common OCD Behaviors in Kids
OCD can make daily life difficult for the kids that it affects and
their families. The behaviors often take up a great deal of time and
energy, making it more difficult to complete tasks, such as homework or
chores, or to enjoy life.
In addition to feeling frustrated or guilty for not being able to
control their own thoughts or actions, kids with OCD also may suffer
from low self-esteem or from shame or embarrassment about what they're
thinking or feeling (since they often realize that their fears are
unrealistic, or that their rituals are not realistically going to
prevent their feared events).
They also may feel pressured because they don't have enough time to
do everything. A child might become irritable because he or she feels
compelled to stay awake late into the night or miss an activity or
outing to complete the compulsive rituals. Kids might have difficulties
with attention or concentration because of the intrusive thoughts.
Among kids and teens with OCD, the most common obsessions include:
- fear of dirt or germs
- fear of contamination
- a need for symmetry, order, and precision
- religious obsessions
- preoccupation with body wastes
- lucky and unlucky numbers
- sexual or aggressive thoughts
- fear of illness or harm coming to oneself or relatives
- preoccupation with household items
- intrusive sounds or words
These compulsions are the most common among kids and teens:
- grooming rituals, including hand washing, showering, and teeth brushing
- repeating rituals, including going in and out of doorways, needing
to move through spaces in a special way, or rereading, erasing, and
rewriting
- checking rituals to make sure that an appliance is off or a door is locked, and repeatedly checking homework
- rituals to undo contact with a "contaminated" person or object
- touching rituals
- rituals to prevent harming self or others
- ordering or arranging objects
- counting rituals
- hoarding and collecting things of no apparent value
- cleaning rituals related to the house or other items
Signs and Symptoms of OCD
Recognizing OCD is often difficult because kids can become adept at
hiding the behaviors. It's not uncommon for a child to engage in
ritualistic behavior for months, or even years, before parents know
about it. Also, a child may not engage in the ritual at school, so
parents might think it's just a phase.
When a child with OCD tries to contain these thoughts or behaviors,
this creates anxiety. Kids who feel embarrassed or as if they're "going
crazy" may try to blend the OCD into the normal daily routine until they
can't control it anymore.
It's common for kids to ask a parent to join in the ritualistic
behavior: First the child has to do something and then the parent has to
do something else. If a child says, "I didn't touch something with
germs, did I?" the parent might have to respond, "No, you're OK," and
the ritual will begin again for a certain number of times. Initially,
the parent might not notice what is happening.
Tantrums, overt signs of worry, and difficult behaviors are common
when parents fail to participate in their child's rituals. It is often
this behavior, as much as the OCD itself, which brings families into
treatment.
Parents can look for the following possible signs of OCD:
- raw, chapped hands from constant washing
- unusually high rate of soap or paper towel usage
- high, unexplained utility bills
- a sudden drop in test grades
- unproductive hours spent doing homework
- holes erased through test papers and homework
- requests for family members to repeat strange phrases or keep answering the same question
- a persistent fear of illness
- a dramatic increase in laundry
- an exceptionally long amount of time spent getting ready for bed
- a continual fear that something terrible will happen to someone
- constant checks of the health of family members
- reluctance to leave the house at the same time as other family members
Diagnosing OCD
OCD is more common than many other childhood disorders or illnesses,
but it often remains undiagnosed. Kids might keep the symptoms hidden
from their families, friends, and teachers because they're embarrassed.
Even when symptoms are present, a parent or health care provider
might not recognize that they are part of a mental health disorder and
may attribute them to a child's quirkiness or even bad behavior.
Doctors consider OCD to be a pattern of obsessive thinking and rituals that does one or more of the following:
- takes up more than an hour each day
- causes distress
- interferes with daily activities
OCD in kids is usually diagnosed between the ages of 7 and 12. Since
these are the years when kids naturally feel concerned about fitting in
with their friends, the discomfort and stress brought on by OCD can make
them feel scared, out of control, and alone.
If your child shows signs of OCD, talk to your doctor. In screening
for OCD, the doctor or a mental health professional will ask your child
about obsessions and compulsions in language that kids will understand,
such as:
- Do you have worries, thoughts, images, feelings, or ideas that bother you?
- Do you have to check things over and over again?
- Do you have to wash your hands a lot, more than most kids?
- Do you count to a certain number or do things a certain number of times?
- Do you collect things that others might throw away (like hair or fingernail clippings)?
- Do things have to be "just so"?
- Are there things you have to do before you go to bed?
Because it might be normal for a child who doesn't have OCD to answer
yes to any of these questions, the doctor also will ask about how often
and how severe the behaviors are, about your family's history of OCD, Tourette syndrome
and other motor or vocal tic disorders, or other problems that
sometimes occur with OCD. OCD is common in people with Tourette
syndrome.
Other disorders that often occur with OCD include other anxiety disorders, depression, disruptive behavior disorders, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD),
learning disorders, and trichotillomania (compulsive hair pulling).
PANS, a rare condition that stands for Pediatric Acute-onset
Neuropsychiatric Syndrome, also has been associated with having OCD.
Treating OCD
The most successful treatments for kids with OCD are behavioral
therapy and medication. Behavioral therapy, also known as
cognitive-behavioral psychotherapy (CBT), helps kids learn to change
thoughts and feelings by first changing behavior.
Behavioral therapy involves gradually exposing kids to their fears,
with the agreement that they will not perform rituals, to help them
recognize that their anxiety will eventually decrease and that no
disastrous outcome will occur. For example, kids who are afraid of dirt
might be exposed to something dirty, starting with something mildly
bothersome and ending with something that might be really dirty.
For exposure to be successful, it must be combined with response
prevention, in which the child's rituals or avoidance behaviors are
blocked. For example, a child who fears dirt must not only stay in
contact with the dirty object, but also must not be allowed to wash
repeatedly.
Some treatment plans involve having the child "bossing back" the OCD,
giving it a nasty nickname, and visualizing it as something he or she
can control. Over time, the anxiety provoked by dirt and the urge to
perform washing rituals gradually disappear. The child also gains
confidence that he or she can "fight" OCD.
OCD can sometimes worsen if it's not treated in a consistent,
logical, and supportive manner. So it's important to find a therapist
who has training and experience in treating OCD.
Just talking about the rituals and fears have not been shown to help
OCD, and may actually make it worse by reinforcing the fears and
prompting extra rituals. Family support and cooperation also go a long
way toward helping a child cope with OCD.
Many kids can do well with behavioral therapy alone while others will
need a combination of behavioral therapy and medication. Therapy can
help your child and family learn strategies to manage the ebb and flow
of OCD symptoms, while medication, such as selective serotonin reuptake
inhibitors (SSRIs), often can reduce the impulse to perform rituals.
Helping Kids With OCD
It's important to understand that OCD is never a child's fault. Once a
child is in treatment, it's important for parents to participate, to
learn more about OCD, and to modify expectations and be supportive.
Kids with OCD get better at different rates, so try to avoid any
day-to-day comparisons and recognize and praise any small improvements.
Keep in mind that it's the OCD that is causing the problem, not the
child. The more that personal criticism can be avoided, the better.
It can be helpful to keep family routines as normal as possible, and
for all family members to learn strategies to help the child with OCD.
It's also important to not let OCD be the "boss" of the house and
regular family activities. Giving in to OCD worries does not make them
go away.
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