We recently moved, and my 16-year-old daughter started at a new
school. Lately, she's been ignoring her curfew, and last weekend I
smelled alcohol on her breath. What should I do?
- Joe
- Joe
The best thing you can do is to talk to your daughter openly about
your concerns. Be blunt, honest, and understanding — and reassure her
that you want to know what's going on with her because you care.
Discuss
your expectations for her, and what the consequences will be if she
breaks the rules. Many teens act like they don't need attention from
their parents and family, but actually they do.
While one or two behavior glitches can be expected with a major life
change, persistent changes in your daughter's behavior, attitude, or
interests may mean something more is going on. Alcohol and/or drug use
are often linked to depression or to difficult life changes like moving
or going through a rough breakup.
If you're still concerned about your daughter's behavior, talk to her doctor or a counselor for advice.
Reviewed by: Larissa Hirsch, MD