Showing posts with label Sad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sad. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Sarah Mclachlan - Dirty Little Secret (Traducida al español)


If I had the chance, love
Si tuviera la oportunidad, amor
I would not hesitate
No dudaría
To tell you all the things I never said before
En decirte todas las cosas que no te dicho antes
Don't tell me it's too late
No me digas que es muy tarde

Chorus:
Cause I've relied on my illusions
Porque he creido en mis fantasias
To keep me warm at night
Para manterne en calor en la noche
But I denied in my capacity to love
Pero no creo en mi capacidad de amar
I am willing, to give up this fight
Esto dispuesta, a dejar esta batalla

I've been up all night drinking
He estado bebiendo toda la noche
To drown my sorrow down
Para ahogar mi pena
Nothing seems to help me since you went away
Nada parece ayudarme desde que te fuiste
I'm so tired of this town
Me aburre esta cuidad
Where every tongue is wagging

En donde cada lengua esta en movimiento
When every back is turned 

Cuando están de espaldas 
Their telling secrets that should never be revealed
Contando sus secretos que nunca deberian reveler
There's nothing to be gained from this
Nada de esto se puede ganar
But disaster..
Pero la desgracia
Here's a good one..
Aquí es buena
Did you hear about my friend
Has oido hablar sobre mi amigo
He's embarrassed to be seen now
Ahora se averguenza de ser visto
Because we..
Porque nosotros
Oh no
Oh no
Be seen..
Hemos sido

If I had the chance love
Si tuviera la aportunidad amar
You know, I would not hesitate
Sabes, no dudaria
To tell you all the things I never said before
En decirte todas las cosas que no he dicho antes
Don't tell me it's too late
Dime que no es muy tarde

Chorus:
Cause I've relied on my illusions
Porque he creido en mis fantasias
To keep me warm at night
Para mantanerme en calor en la noche
But I denied in my capacity to love
Pero no creo en mi capacidad de amar
I am willing, to give up this fight
Estoy dispuesta, a dejar esta batalla
Oh, I am willing to give up this fight..


Oh, estoy dispuesta a dejar esta batalla …

sarah mclachlan en español dirty little secret letra traducida al español 

Monday, October 15, 2012

When a Pet Dies


For most kids, pets are more than just animals their families own — they're members of the family and the best of friends.

Unfortunately, the joy of owning a pet goes hand-in-hand with the heartbreak of losing one, whether because of old age, illness, or an accident.

And that can be very difficult. After all, family pets often are the first to greet kids in the morning and after school. Your pet may be the one your child looks to for comfort and companionship when ill or feeling unpopular or upset.

While it's impossible to shelter kids from the loss of a pet, you can help them cope with it. And because a pet's death might be their first time losing a loved one, the grieving process can help kids learn how to cope with other losses throughout life.

Sharing the News and the Grief

One of the most difficult parts about losing a pet may be breaking the bad news to kids. Try to do so one-on-one in a place where they feel safe and comfortable and not easily distracted.

As you would with any tough issue, try to gauge how much information kids need to hear based on their age, maturity level, and life experience.

If your pet is very old or has a lingering illness, consider talking to kids before the death occurs. If you have to euthanize your pet, you may want to explain that:
  • the veterinarians have done everything that they can
  • your pet would never get better
  • this is the kindest way to take the pet's pain away
  • the pet will die peacefully, without feeling hurt or scared
Again, a child's age, maturity level, and questions will help determine whether to offer a clear and simple explanation for what's going to happen. If so, it's OK to use words like "death" and "dying" or to say something like "The veterinarian will give our pet a shot that first puts it to sleep and then stops the heart from beating." Many kids want a chance to say goodbye beforehand, and some may be old enough or emotionally mature enough to be there to comfort the pet during the process.

If you do have to euthanize your pet, be careful about saying the animal went "to sleep" or "got put to sleep." Young kids tend to interpret events literally, so this can conjure up scary misconceptions about sleep or surgery and anesthesia.

If the pet's death is more sudden, calmly explain what has happened. Be brief, and let your child's questions guide how much information you provide.

Sticking to the Truth

Avoid trying to gloss over the event with a lie. Telling a child that "Buster ran away" or "Max went on a trip" is not a good idea. It probably won't alleviate the sadness about losing the pet, and if the truth does come out, your child will probably be angry that you lied.
If asked what happens to the pet after it dies, draw on your own understanding of death, including, if relevant, the viewpoint of your faith. And since none of us knows fully, an honest "I don't know" certainly can be an appropriate answer — it's OK to tell kids that death is a mystery.

Helping Your Child Cope

Like anyone dealing with a loss, kids usually feel a variety of emotions besides sadness after the death of a pet. They might experience loneliness, anger if the pet was euthanized, frustration that the pet couldn't get better, or guilt about times that they were mean to or didn't care for the pet as promised.

Help kids understand that it's natural to feel all of those emotions, that it's OK to not want to talk about them at first, and that you're there when they are ready to talk.

Don't feel compelled to hide your own sadness about losing a pet. Showing how you feel and talking about it openly sets an example for kids. You show that it's OK to feel sad when you lose a loved one, to talk about your feelings, and to cry when you feel sad. And it's comforting to kids to know that they're not alone in feeling sad. Share stories about the pets you had — and lost — when you were young and how difficult it was to say goodbye.



Moving On

After the shock of the news has faded, it's important to help your child heal and move on.
It can help kids to find special ways to remember a pet. You might have a ceremony to bury your pet or just share memories of fun times you had together. Write a prayer together or offer thoughts on what the pet meant to each family member. Share stories of your pet's funny moments or escapades. Offer lots of loving hugs. You could do a project, too, like making a scrapbook.

Keep in mind that grieving over the loss of a pet, particularly for a child, is similar to grieving over a person. For kids, losing a pet who offered love and companionship can be much more difficult than losing a distant relative. You might have to explain that to friends, family members, or others who don't own pets or don't understand that.

Perhaps most important, talk about your pet, often and with love. Let your child know that while the pain will eventually go away, the happy memories of the pet will always remain. When the time is right, you might consider adopting a new pet — not as a replacement, but as a way to welcome another animal friend into your family.


Reviewed by: D'Arcy Lyness, PhD
Date reviewed: April 2012

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Natalie Imbruglia - Goodbye


"Goodbye"

Everyday's the same
I feel them merge
I try to separate
Resist the urge
But they tell me
I'll be fine
That it will all get better
Just try to write it down
Or put it in a letter
But the words won't play
And there's no
Easy way to say
Goodbye, goodbye

Keep my head on straight
And don't look down
With all I've pushed away
I'm losing ground
But they tell me
I'll be fine
That it will all get better
Just try to write it down
Or put it in a letter

But the words won't play
And there's no
Easy way to say
Goodbye, goodbye

And from the sidelines
Watch me fall down

And I don't understand
The things I do
But I'll probably be fine
As long as I keep moving
I'll try to write it down
So things just keep improving

Still the words won't play
'Cause there's no
Easy way to say
Goodbye, goodbye

Friday, July 8, 2011

Stevie Nicks - I Miss You

 

"I Miss You"

When I think about you
I think about how much I
Miss you when you're not around
When I think about you
I think about how much I
Can't wait to hear the sound
Of your laughter
Time and distance never matter

[Chorus:]
Well I miss you now
I have so many questions
About love and about pain
About strained relationships
About fame as only he could explain it to me

Seems like yesterday
I think about how much I
Wish that you were here with me now
The invisible girl that was my name
She walks in and walks out
And I'm sorry now
I'm sorry now

[Chorus]

Paris to Rome, London to Paris
Always goodbye, I nearly couldn't bear it
Her heart settles down
She's back on that staircase
On the way up to her place

[Chorus]
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